The more that you take responsibility for your life, your work, your relationships and your ability to attract women, the more that ‘lady luck’ will be by your side, helping you at every step of the way. Conversely, the more that you desperately look to external circumstances to provide for you and fail to take [...]

If you ask any dating coaches or experts in social dynamics worth their salt, they’ll all tell you that the one thing that absolutely kills an interaction is being dependent on it’s outcome. If you care too much about the ‘result’ of the interaction, in terms of your perceived success or failure, it will probably [...]

I have a confession to make… I went out recently with a close friend to practice the art of striking up conversations with strangers, and rather than storming into the interactions like a force of nature and leaving behind me a whirlwind of awesomeness, I was, well, like a limp dick! I was totally unable [...]

The area of dating, seduction and relationships is an area where ego can very quickly become involved. When a you have a beautiful girlfriend or a history of seducing beautiful women, you can begin to believe that you know everything there is to know about dating. However, all this does is serve to prevent you [...]

Most guys searching for advice about how approach, attract and connect with women are looking for some kind of ‘method’ that will bring them absolute consistency in the way that women respond to them. The problem is, if you’re adopting any kind of method in order to make yourself more appealing to the majority of [...]

The old cliche, ‘It’s not what you say but the way that you say it,’ isn’t just a cliche. It’s damn true! No words a man utters upon approaching a woman will have any significance if that man is not absolutely conscious and present as he says them. And conversely, a guy can get away [...]

There are a lot of questions I get asked about meeting women that are a good indication of an unhealthy attitude towards succeeding in the dating game. Right up there among the worst is this one: “How many women do you have to approach in order to meet someone you can start dating?” Sure, it [...]

We’ve spent our whole lives being told what to do and why to do it… ‘Keep your elbows off the table, it’s not polite’ ‘Don’t stare, it’s rude’ ‘Tuck your shirt in, look respectable’ ‘Get married, think about your future’ ‘Keep your head down, stay out of trouble’ We’ve been told to do the ‘right [...]

Whatever actions we take in our day-to-day lives have subtle messages attached to them. These messages are not often perceived consciously, and yet they are of great importance because they are messages that we send to ourselves. For example, when you see an attractive woman woman who you feel compelled to speak to but resist [...]

There she is… long, dark hair, olive skin, and a look so sweet it ignites a fire inside of you. You feel absolutely compelled to go and talk to her, and simultaneously, you are paralysed and unable to act. Why? Because the very notion that you might fail and your fragile ego would be damaged [...]