There is nothing less seductive than a question train, whereby a hapless man shifts from one topic to another, asking question after a question and adding nothing to the conversation. The interaction usually runs a little like this… Him: So what do you do? Her: I work in business. Him: Oh cool. And where are [...]

All a woman wants from a man is to be genuinely appreciated as being special in some way. Hence the popularity of song lyrics like, “I want you to make me feel like I’m the only girl in the world.” Bearing this in mind, surely being complimentary about a woman will only yield good responses, [...]

If you’re like most men you have more than one or two inappropriate thoughts come into your head from time to time. And most often, you’d be absolutely right to censor those thoughts rather than expressing them. Thoughts like, “amazing boobs,” “I want to see you naked,” or, “my dick is hard,” are usually best [...]

Meditation is the practice of cultivating greater and greater levels of inner stillness, presence and equanimity. A basic meditation involves a process of allowing any thoughts and sensations to arise and pass away without engaging, resisting or attaching to them. Typically, this is done sitting alone in a relaxed environment and in silence. However, most [...]

The ability to develop any skill depends, in no small part, on your ability to interpret your experience in a positive way. Framing your experience in a positive way and giving yourself constructive criticism creates a positive feedback loop that allows you to achieve greater and greater levels of efficiency. Conversely, beating yourself up and [...]

Over thinking and over analysis are the sources of all the weird behaviours that guys adopt when it comes to calling and texting the women they’re attracted to, and this all stems from feelings of insecurity and scarcity. Sometimes guys call too much because they’re worried that if they don’t keep in close contact they’ll [...]

If you walk up to a woman and express your interest in her, you must create two distinct feelings in her to avoid being immediately rejected. These feelings are intrigue and comfort. Creating intrigue is simple enough. The very act of approaching a woman and expressing your interest in her honestly, openly and directly is [...]

She’s cute and sexy and has a charm that makes every other woman pale in comparison. The only problem is that she’s working, constantly distracted, and sees you as just another customer! I’m not gonna tell you it’s easy because most often it’s not, but where there’s a will there’s a way. The thing that [...]

So you made your approach, you expressed an interest in the woman… But what next? Guys are always wondering how they should go about navigating a conversation with a woman they’re attracted to. In doing so they lose track of the reason that they wanted to initiate the conversation in the first place, and forget [...]

We’ve all been there. You’re walking down the street just minding your own business, and then, all of a sudden, there she is… Shiny long hair, big and beautiful eyes, a sweet smile, and she’s radiating femininity, openness and aliveness. Your heart beats a little faster as she approaches, you lock eye contact, and as [...]