You were told all your life that if you just worked hard, got a good education and followed it up with a good career everything would work out great. You’d wake up and the birds would be singing, you’d go to work with a spring in your step and enjoy your day…and of course, as a result of working so hard to get a great career women would just flock to you like sheep.
Never were your family, the films you’ve always watched and society in general so wrong.
The reality of it all is so grim!
In truth, you wake up dreading the day ahead. Even when you should be relaxing in the shower you fear being in the office. You run the rat race to get to work on packed tubes surrounded by miserable, middle aged men in suits who have a grimace permanently etched onto their faces.
When you finally get to work you’re confined to your desk and the monotony of your remedial work that drains you of every ounce of spirit that you once possessed. Every second is a minute and every minute is an hour. Finally, you escape the office and drown your sorrows with beer in the nearest pub. Once in a while you manage to summon up enough courage to chat to a woman but you haven’t got a clue what to say and you get shut down time and time again.
The image in your head of the big man that society promised you would be if you just worked hard enough is slowly beginning to fade. You’re just another cog in the big wheel of a corporation and all the life has been sucked out of you.
Okay, okay, perhaps this is a little extreme! But for a lot of people the reality is not too far away.
The biggest lies that society tells are that if you just work hard enough one day everything will be perfect and that if you have the right career everything else just falls into place, including women.
As far as your career helping you to solve all your problems including your lack of success with the ladies, this is a result of a fundamental misunderstanding of what women find attractive in men. Women are not attracted to money and for them status is nothing without courage, presence, charisma, and authenticity.
The good news is that these qualities can be cultivated, or more accurately, awakened from within.
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