There is some very good news for every guy out there who has ever struggled to talk to a woman or failed to succeed at dating. And that is…
“Practice makes perfect.”
In other words, no matter how bad you currently are at relating to women you can sky rocket your success just by practising. Relational skills are soft skills, they are skills that are developed the more you practice. They can be compared to sporting or musical ability in this way. Whilst some people will have a little more natural ability in these departments EVERYONE improves with practice.
Contrast this with intelligence, no matter how many intelligence tests you take your I.Q. score will be more or less the same. Intelligence is a hard skill. You’re either smart or you’re not.
The great thing to takeaway from this little lesson is that your success is in your hands. If you want to be able to relate to women in a very powerful way and have a great dating life then you must engage women in interactions. The more you practice the better you get.
“Luck is in love with hard work.” -Unknown
Check out this video for a great example of someone who has worked hard to have amazing skills and succeeded:
No one is born with this kind of ability. It is developed through practice. However, it is worth noting that everyone has some level of innate social skill since human beings are social creatures. Consequently, cultivating the ability to relate in a more powerful way is easily done.
Make it part of your lifestyle to talk to engage with women 😉
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Sebastian Callow is a personal dating coach for men in London. Unlike other dating services he provides a practical, real-life coaching experience that actually involves meeting and interacting with women in everyday situations. Sebastian helps men develop the comfort and ease to express themselves with raw honesty. If you're unhappy with your dating life and you're hungry for change, the Personal Coaching Course could be exactly what you need.