A new year begins and everyone wants this to be the year that they mould themselves into the person they have always wanted to be. Many people will decide on new actions and many new years resolutions will be made, but how many will be followed up?
“A real decision is measured by the fact that you’ve taken a new action. If there’s no action, you haven’t truly decided” -Tony Robbins
They key thing to remember about setting goals and making resolutions is to stick to them, otherwise they are meaningless. Most people simply don’t follow up on their goals and consequently they never achieve anything. Don’t be part of the majority, be one of the few who actually achieves success.
And if your looking for some goals and resolutions that will really help you boost your success this year then why not make this year the year of the risk taker? Why not make it the year where you push your comfort zones further than ever before? Take as many chances as possible.
Few actions will bring you more success with women than consistently taking risks. Being a risk taker is a very attractive quality in a male because it is indicative of a man who is decisive, and a man who is decisive is a very attractive man. Decisive men who consistently take action no matter what the risk are the men who achieve the greatest success with women.
Every step of the way from meeting a woman to sleeping with her the man must take risks, lead and escalate the interaction towards its final goal. The very act of approaching a woman is risky, she has every opportunity to reject you, but if you don’t approach you are sure to fail.
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” -Wayne Gretzky
Asking a woman personal questions is risky, revealing personal things about yourself is risky, kissing a woman for the first time is risky, inviting a woman back to your place is risky… I could go on and on. Ultimately, you have to go out and put your balls on the line if you want to succeed. The more risks you take the more successful you will be.
Eventually, you won’t even see these things as risks any more. You’ll just see them as actions you must take, and you’ll assume that they will result in success.
Start the new year as you mean to go on. No excuses, no rationalisations, and no if’s, but’s or maybe’s… Just action! Take the bull by the horns, go for it and make 2010 the most exciting year of your life.
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