The age old question, “when do I make a move?”
Knowing when to kiss a woman is quite important. Consequently, so much thought is put into it that most guys often wait way too long to go for it. In actuality, it’s probably better to go for it too soon than too late. Even if a woman rejects your first attempt to kiss her she may actually feel more comfortable around you and more attracted to you in the long run.
I regularly attempt to kiss women before I am sure that they’re ready to do so, and if they pull away I just smile back and continue the conversation completely unaffected. During the brief moment when she pulls away she may feel slightly uncomfortable but that quickly subsides when she sees that I’m completely at ease.
After this there is often a feeling of strong attraction because she can see I’m a man that goes for what he wants and isn’t afraid to act on his impulses. She may also feel more comfortable within the interaction because she knows she can trust me to take the lead and move things forward.
Conversely, when a woman has to wait and wait and wait for a guy to make a move she often loses faith in his ability to lead the interaction -she feels less attracted and less comfortable because she thinks she may have to make the first move.
Obviously, there are other considerations with regard to kissing a woman. For instance, it’s not a good idea for the first act of touch between the two of you to be a passionate kiss. Instead, touch should commence from the outset of the interaction and progress from more formal touching (eg, touching on the shoulder, kiss on the cheek) to more intimate forms of touching (eg, hugging, touching someones hair, kissing passionately).
So remember to move things along gradually with progressively more intimate forms of touch but don’t wait too long to kiss a woman passionately.
A good rule of thumb to follow is this; if you have thought about kissing her already than it’s about time you gave it a try.
“He who hesitates masturbates” 😉
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