It’ll be no surprise to most of you that the most successful people in the world have a strong sense of their own self-worth, and it’s no different when it comes to meeting and attracting women.
“I don’t need my car to be the shit, I’m the shit!” -Chuck D.
The trouble is that most guys never realise exactly how unique and special they actually are, as cheesy as it sounds! Everyone out there has such an unusual set of qualities, attributes, behaviours and interests that there is no one else quite like them in the whole world.
Once this is recognised it is also recognised that any woman who comes into contact with you can have their life deeply enriched just by getting to know you because it is their only opportunity to meet someone with all the unique qualities that you possess.
When you have the belief that any woman can be deeply benefited by spending time with you it will then be projected in every aspect of your communication with them, they will get the feeling that there is something about you and may even be compelled to be around you without knowing why.
Take 5 minutes now and write down a list of all the unique things about yourself, all the things that make you a little bit special…
Now consider something else -beautiful women are absolutely abundant whilst really cool guys are a lot less common. You can walk down any street in London and it won’t be too long before you see a very attractive woman. However, there aren’t many guys that possess all the qualities that a woman looks for in a man, eg, courage, charisma, decisiveness, humour, etc (see here for more details about what attracts a woman).
How many men do you know that would have the balls to walk up to a beautiful woman in the middle of the day, tell her exactly how he feels about her and have her laughing in the first few minutes of the interaction? The answer, if we are really honest, is very, very few! What this means is that if you can awaken these qualities in yourself women will perceive you to be like gold dust.
The recognition that you have these qualities, or at the very least that you can awaken these qualities in yourself, is another aspect of recognising your own self-worth. YOU ARE, or at the very least have the potential to be, THE SHIT!
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Sebastian Callow is a personal dating coach for men in London. Unlike other dating services he provides a practical, real-life coaching experience that actually involves meeting and interacting with women in everyday situations. Sebastian helps men develop the comfort and ease to express themselves with raw honesty. If you're unhappy with your dating life and you're hungry for change, the Personal Coaching Course could be exactly what you need.