Eating, drinking, sleeping, having sex! These are things human beings have been doing successfully for millions of years. They are basic and simple human needs and they can be accomplished without much difficulty. Each and every one of us accepts that we can do the first three without much effort but somehow some of us are under the delusion that having sex or establishing a sexual relationship is difficult.
Let’s dispell this myth right here and right now and brake this down as simply as we possibly can.
Men love women… Women love men… Men love sex… Women love sex…
Now ask yourself the question: How complicated can this possibly be?!?
The truth is that it’s not complicated at all! In the words of the Jackson 5, “it’s as easy as A,B, C, simple like 1,2,3”. I know you might have read all kinds of dating theory and bought into it but I’m here to tell you, DON’T BELIEVE THE HYPE!
Sometimes we, with our over-active minds, make things soooo complicated when the solutions are so blindingly simple. You don’t have to be George Clooney or Brad Pitt, you don’t have to be a premier league football player or a rich business man. All you have to have is the simple courage to express exactly how you feel in any given moment.
Here’s a scenario for you, you see a woman walking down the street and you feel compelled to go and meet her. What do you do? Do you have to find a way to demonstrate social value? Do you have to find a way to communicate a high status job? Do you need to convey that you have other women in your life? Do you need to lower her social value so that she looks up to you?
All you need is the knowledge that you’re a red blooded male that goes for what he want and doesn’t care what others think about him. You walk over and lay all your cards on the table, “hey, I know this is a little random but I saw you here and… I HAD to meet you!”.
In the simplicity of just doing what you feel, saying what you feel and acting like you feel everything else takes care of itself. So many attractive qualities are conveyed instantly. Are you decisive? Yes! Are you willing to put your balls on the line? Yes! Are you brave? Yes! Are you spontaneous? Yes!
Is being decisive, brave, spontaneous and willing to take risks enough for a woman to be interested in getting to know you on a romantic/sexual level?
Do you need to waste your money or your time learning over-hyped dating “systems?”
Al you need is the willingness to go out and put your balls on the line so often that you become comfortable with it. Sooner, rather than later, you’ll be walking and talking like the kind of man who exudes social value without ever needing to communicate it verbally.
“Being confident isn’t about expressing confidence, it’s about confidently expressing everything.” -Wayne Elise
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