What I’m about to say probably isn’t the most popular theory in the field of dating and seduction, but it’s the truth…
The ability to approach, attract and connect with women is UNTEACHABLE!
Now matter how many concepts you’ve read and seemingly understood, no matter how many times you’ve heard how it’s done and no matter how many times you’ve seen it done, you won’t learn until you’ve been through the experience of doing it yourself.
EXPERIENCE is the only teacher you can ever rely on!
One of the biggest fallacies in dating is that you can learn a load of concepts from a book or go and visit a dating coach, and hey presto you’re a certified Pimp! The fact is that neither of those things will be of any use whatsoever without any application. And that application can’t be done by anyone but you, and it’s done only through gaining your own personal experience.
No one has EVER taught anyone how to do this!
That statement will be a difficult one to swallow for anyone who has had a lot of successful students and wants to claim bragging rights for their success. However, the truth of the matter is that those students were successful as a result of their own personal application and dedication, and the experiences they gained from their hard work. If they hadn’t applied themselves they wouldn’t have succeeded no matter how good the coaching.
I can almost always spot someone who will become great at this, not because of their social skills or looks, but because they have a burning desire to put themselves through anything to make it happen. That burning desire carries them through a mass of trials, tribulations, failures and successes, and a mass of learning. That burning desire inspires those individuals to be their own Guru, and to make it happen because of no one else and for no one else.
The only way to succeed is not to be taught but to surrender to what needs to be done. A teacher can speed up and facilitate what needs to be done but no one can do it except YOU!
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Sebastian Callow is a personal dating coach for men in London. Unlike other dating services he provides a practical, real-life coaching experience that actually involves meeting and interacting with women in everyday situations. Sebastian helps men develop the comfort and ease to express themselves with raw honesty. If you're unhappy with your dating life and you're hungry for change, the Personal Coaching Course could be exactly what you need.