Every man should have two loves in his life. First, he should have a passion for women and the pursuit of a loving relationship. Second, and more significantly, he should have a passion and pursuit that is a means to an end, in and of itself. What I mean by this is that a man should find out what it is that he loves to do, he should find out what his passion and purpose is.
Well, first and foremost because without a passion and purpose through which to filter your energy you will feel very empty, your life will feel useless. You become like a blunt knife, with a definite design and purpose, and yet lacking the edge that is needed to penetrate life fully and give your gift to the world.
As a result of not having a passion or purpose you might work in a job that doesn’t motivate you creatively. Consequently, both work and play become a means to an unsatisfactory end. Work becomes simply a way to make money, you grind it out through gritted teeth until your wage slip comes through. And, as a result of this, your free time is all about trying to unwind and absolutely nothing more.
Contrast this with someone who is living his passion. Every moment of his working life is a joy and every moment of his leisure is a celebration. This kind of man is not empty, rather he is full to the brim and beyond, overflowing and sharing what he has to offer with the world. If you haven’t found your passion in life then do what you can to find it, first and foremost for your own personal well being.
There is of course a secondary reason to find your passion in life. The pursuit of a loving relationship will be far, far easier if you’re a man with passion and purpose in life. A man with passion and purpose is a very attractive man, he has a definite edge and he can penetrate life and his woman without holding anything back, he can open them up with his gifts and love. A man who can live fully is also a man who can love fully.
In fact, when you’ve found your love in life in terms of your passion and purpose, it’s likely that you won’t have to spend so much time pursuing a woman to have a loving relationship with. Instead, she’ll pursue you!
Find your love and love will find you 😉
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