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Sex is NOT the goal…

Posted by Sebastian - May 15, 2017 - Psychology, Sex
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SEX IS NOT THE GOAL! The men’s dating and self-improvement community is very confused. It’s focus is skewed towards sex, the ability to acquire sex, being a ‘sex-worthy’ man, letting your authentic self out so you can have more sex… Put it any way you want it, it’s all about sex! Even the guys who […]

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Being aloof VS going ‘balls deep’…

Posted by Sebastian - November 19, 2016 - Psychology, Relationships
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If you’re familiar with the world of men’s self-development or even spirituality, you’ve probably found yourself learning about concepts like being unattached, outcome independent and unreactive. Like all concepts they are but a poor translation of what they hope to illustrate. More-often-than-not these concepts are misinterpreted to fit in with the fearful perspective of the one […]

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How to be impressive and unforgettable!

Posted by Sebastian - June 24, 2016 - Psychology
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Working as a dating coach in London I regularly come across guys who are looking for the magic technique, the perfect line, that one thing that’ll help them to be impressive, impactful and unforgettable. The first thing to note here is that such a search is doomed from the outset, for if you have the […]

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Why ‘be yourself’ doesn’t seem to be working out for you…

Posted by Sebastian - May 11, 2016 - Dating Tips, Psychology
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As a Dating Coach in London, I’m hesitant to offer the advice to ‘just be yourself’ in such simple terms. You’ve been being yourself throughout your life, right? And, to a great extent, you’re not getting the results you desire in dating and in life. You probably feel it’s time to try something different. But, […]

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Why it’s time to forget about being an ‘Alpha Male’…

Posted by Sebastian - May 4, 2016 - Psychology
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As a dating coach in London, I’m presented with questions about the term ‘alpha male’ on a regular basis, most guys feeling that this is something they aspire to and must become. An ‘alpha male’ is defined as: “A male animal having the highest rank in a dominance hierarchy.” The term is typically used in reference to non-human apes and monkeys, where the ape/monkey who […]

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Why you care so much what other people think…

Posted by Sebastian - April 27, 2016 - Psychology
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You don’t want to talk to that girl at the cafe because she might think you’re weird. You don’t want to talk to that girl at the bus stop because other people might hear and think it’s ‘not right’. You don’t want to talk to that girl at the club because other girls might think […]

Read More dating coach london, self-acceptance, self-esteem

5 ways low self-esteem is killing your dating life…

Posted by Sebastian - March 9, 2016 - Psychology
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What’s the difference that makes the difference when it comes to winning at dating and relationships? Contrary to popular opinion it’s not your looks or how much money you have in your bank account, it’s not even your knowledge and understanding of male/female dynamics and the dating game. It is, quite simply, your self-esteem! No […]

Read More dating coach london, failure, self-esteem

5 tell-tale signs that you’re not comfortable relating to women…

Posted by Sebastian - January 6, 2016 - Dating Tips, Psychology
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A lot of guys in the world of men’s self-improvement, dating coaching and pick-up appear to be pretty good at relating to women, at least, if you didn’t know any better. A closer inspection reveals the cracks that show a fragile sense of self and a huge level of discomfort in relating to women. What […]

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What Bruce Lee can teach you about seduction…

Posted by Sebastian - December 30, 2015 - Psychology
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The world of dating coaching, pick-up and seduction is a funny little world. For a long time it’s been a world driven by nerdy formulas, methods and theories about how to attract women, created in no small part by guys who are very clever, but not so emotionally and socially intelligent. It’s a world that […]

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Does fear ever go away? What does it mean to be free from fear?

Posted by Sebastian - December 16, 2015 - Psychology
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The short answer to the question ‘does fear ever go away?’ is ‘no!’ It never really goes away, at least not in any permanent way. Fear may go away for a while. You may have a few experiences in the absence of fear. You may even believe that you have transcended fear and that you […]

Read More fear, master, servant
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