As a Dating Coach in London, I’m hesitant to offer the advice to ‘just be yourself’ in such simple terms. You’ve been being yourself throughout your life, right? And, to a great extent, you’re not getting the results you desire in dating and in life. You probably feel it’s time to try something different. But, […]
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A lot of guys in the world of men’s self-improvement, dating coaching and pick-up appear to be pretty good at relating to women, at least, if you didn’t know any better. A closer inspection reveals the cracks that show a fragile sense of self and a huge level of discomfort in relating to women. What […]
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The level of emotional constipation that modern man suffers from is embarrassing, it really is. Please don’t take my tone as one of condemnation. I’m a man who has struggled with this area myself and it’s something I’ve worked really hard to resolve. Even now, as much as I know I can express a depth […]
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Being in a relationship with a woman that you deeply love and who deeply loves you is one of the most powerful positions that you can embody. “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” – Lao Tzu Deep relationship and deep connection that is born out of desire, as opposed to need, is […]
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The world of men’s self-improvement is booming. In particular, dating advice and dating coaching for men is huge right now. But why so? Why are men struggling so badly to connect with women? And why has the world of ‘menprovement’ failed to facilitate a significant change for the better? The problem arises from the fact […]
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As a normal, sane human being you probably make a concerted effort to avoid or eliminate awkward silences, stilted conversations and difficult circumstances. No one enjoys being in a ‘that awkward moment when…’ scenario. However, no matter how much you try to avoid it, they happen! And the more you’re putting yourself out there, the […]
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So, you did some research and read about the coolest, most flawless pick-up line ever, guaranteed to never fail. You went out to a bar, plucked up the courage, walked over to an attractive girl and delivered it. And what happened? Not only did her pants not magically fall to her ankles, not only did […]
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First off, I hate the word pick-up! I’ve chosen it for use in the title as it creates contrast, and what I really want to talk about here is the power of contrast and the apposition of opposites. When I say pick-up, what I’m really referring to is not the insidious belief that one can […]
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Having been out and about doing a good bit of coaching recently, which involves me doing demonstrations for clients and also watching clients interact with women themselves, I’ve been reminded of a few things. Allow me to share… 1) Having a huge grin on your face makes ALL the difference! A big smile communicates SO […]
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Here’s a quick video blog on five of my favourite places to meet women in London during the daytime (or as the more nerdy types like to call it, ‘daygame’)… Just to recap. Here’s the list again… 1) Oxford Street/Regent Street. Any given day is a good time really. If you don’t see at least […]
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