Conveying your identity is one of the most overlooked parts of meeting and attracting women, and there’s two main reasons for this. First, guys are so overly concerned with trying to be cool and funny that they forget to paint a picture of who they are and what they stand for. Second, some guys don’t […]

“Charisma is the intangible that makes people want to follow you, to be around you, to be influenced by you.” -Roger Dawson Why are you here on this site? I suspect it has something to do with the statement above, you want women to follow you, to be around you, and to be influenced by […]

How do you manage to get a date to finish at your place? Well, it’s really not that difficult providing you’ve built a good connection with the woman and you use your social intelligence. The mistake most guys make is that they don’t have a good reason to go back to their place and so […]

When it comes to talking to women the age old question of “what should I say?” is very much misplaced. Sure, there are certain things its important to communicate to a woman verbally and there are certain things you shouldn’t communicate with your words. However, ultimately you will be judged more on what you communicate […]

Ever found yourself having a conversation with a beautiful woman and feeling that you were unable to get the right words out? Not feeling as though you can keep a conversation going or that everything you say is inadequate is one of the most common problems guys face when talking to women. The question “what […]

The age old question… Where do I take my date? Conventional wisdom will tell you that going for dinner or to the cinema is the best bet for a first date. The problem with going to the cinema is that for the entire two hours that you watch the film there will be little or […]

So, you can approach a woman confidently, banter with her, get her interested and get her number but she never answers the phone or calls back. Why? The simple fact is that no matter how attractive, confident and charming you were at the time there still isn’t anything that really connects the two of you. […]

One of the things that guys consistently struggle with when attempting to attract women is that they lack the ability to flirt. The conversation is flat, stale and she doesn’t feel any emotional spikes whatsoever. Is it any wonder that that women often make excuses about how they have to meet their friends, or say […]

The vast majority of guys spend their free time in bars and clubs trying to pick up women. Most of them wait until the end of the night when they’ve mustered up enough ‘dutch courage’ to go and talk to them. At this point the women have already been chatted up 20 times or more […]