The world of dating coaching, pick-up and seduction is a funny little world. For a long time it’s been a world driven by nerdy formulas, methods and theories about how to attract women, created in no small part by guys who are very clever, but not so emotionally and socially intelligent. It’s a world that […]
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The short answer to the question ‘does fear ever go away?’ is ‘no!’ It never really goes away, at least not in any permanent way. Fear may go away for a while. You may have a few experiences in the absence of fear. You may even believe that you have transcended fear and that you […]
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It is said that there are only two things you can be sure of in life; death and taxes. Well, I’d say, as men, we can expect three things; death, taxes and emotional storms from the women we love. Ladies, please don’t take this as a jibe, for it is your emotional storms that cause […]
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It’s confession time… I have a fetish! No, I don’t mean I’m into sucking toes, attracted to leather or that I get turned on by being tied up. I simply mean that I have an abnormal attraction to something that most people just aren’t that into. The truth is, I have a fetish for fear! Allow […]
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Mixed Martial Arts (MMA) represents a fascinating arena for exploring the psychology of success, and, not surprisingly, a lot of the lessons are easily transferable to other areas of life, including dating. On Saturday night, Ronda Rousey, the woman described as ‘the most dominant champion in the UFC’ by multiple sources was spectacularly knocked out […]
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The way that you relate to women mirrors the way you relate to the world! Write that down in your diary. Make a note of it in your phone. Let it imprint itself in your mind. And most importantly, never, ever forget it! Why is this so fundamentally important? Because when you learn to relate […]
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How do you win at life? How do you succeed in every little thing you do? Well, first off, let me tell you how you don’t win, let me tell you how you don’t succeed. You don’t succeed by being a whinging, whiney, little bitch and complaining about how the world is against you. You […]
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If you want to achieve your goals you know what you have to do. Or, at the very least, you have a good idea. And you damn sure know what you shouldn’t be doing. But, chances are, you continue to to do it day in and day out, whilst the weeks, months and years fall […]
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The level of emotional constipation that modern man suffers from is embarrassing, it really is. Please don’t take my tone as one of condemnation. I’m a man who has struggled with this area myself and it’s something I’ve worked really hard to resolve. Even now, as much as I know I can express a depth […]
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Are you good enough? How do you know? If you don’t know, what does that mean for you and how does it affect you? Most men lack an internal sense of self-esteem, a sense of being happy and content with who they are and what they are capable of. In the rare case that this […]
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