If you’re familiar with the world of men’s self-development or even spirituality, you’ve probably found yourself learning about concepts like being unattached, outcome independent and unreactive. Like all concepts they are but a poor translation of what they hope to illustrate. More-often-than-not these concepts are misinterpreted to fit in with the fearful perspective of the one […]
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A warrior is defined as: “A person who fights in battles and is known for having courage and skill.” And what does being a warrior have to do with relationships which are supposed to be about love and intimacy? Well, when two people agree to play the game of mutual openness and intimacy it is […]
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It is said that there are only two things you can be sure of in life; death and taxes. Well, I’d say, as men, we can expect three things; death, taxes and emotional storms from the women we love. Ladies, please don’t take this as a jibe, for it is your emotional storms that cause […]
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Relationships are hard. They have to be. When two different people with separate ideas, beliefs and values occupy a significant space in each others lives, there has to be conflict. On the flip side, they’re worth it. Deep connection allows for these stumbling blocks to be turned into stepping stones on the path to greater […]
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“For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, so shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth. ” […]
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Monogamy or Polyamory? A hot topic, and one that is contested with religious fervour. In fact, monogamy and marriage do indeed have their roots in religion. Being in an exclusive relationship and a marriage is a central tenet of most monotheistic religions. Hence, it’s no wonder that any relationship that operates outside of monogamy is […]
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What makes a relationship work? Well, it’s been a while since I’ve been in a serious relationship myself but I recognise great advice when I hear it. That’s why I’m going to refer you to a man called Benjamin Smythe who can tell you exactly why and how his relationship works. His explanation is deeply […]
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