SEX IS NOT THE GOAL! The men’s dating and self-improvement community is very confused. It’s focus is skewed towards sex, the ability to acquire sex, being a ‘sex-worthy’ man, letting your authentic self out so you can have more sex… Put it any way you want it, it’s all about sex! Even the guys who […]
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Everything is sexual… Everything! You’re very existence was brought about through the act of sex, and the survival of our species and every other species, plant or animal, is dependent on sex. Sex is the source and essence of life and it is self-evident wherever you choose to look. Everything is either an act of […]
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It’s confession time… I have a fetish! No, I don’t mean I’m into sucking toes, attracted to leather or that I get turned on by being tied up. I simply mean that I have an abnormal attraction to something that most people just aren’t that into. The truth is, I have a fetish for fear! Allow […]
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There are whole host of ways you can develop your sexual prowess, from exploring Tantra, to Taoist sexual energy cultivation, to stroke skills practices… all of which take some time to learn about, practice and develop. All worthwhile investments of time and energy, but investments nonetheless. There are, however, things that you can be conscious […]
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You’re either perceived as a sexual being or you’re not… and most guys are not! You’re probably one of them! You might be good-looking, well-spoken, fashionable, intelligent and charming, but if you’re incapable of expressing your sexuality then you will never, ever escape the ‘friends zone’. You will never, ever be perceived as anything more […]
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Several years ago, when I was trapped in a cycle of relentless sexual pursuit, I’d been out on a date with a really cute and sexy French girl. The conversation was flowing, the attraction was at a peak and we’d developed the kind of connection needed to take things further. I used my usual excuse […]
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