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“We first started out with some discussion about inner psychology to get in the right mindset. To get a good understanding of his style of interaction we hit the streets and Seb demonstrated his way of approaching while recording it at the same time. We then went over the recording and he broke down his approach step-by-step explaining what and why he did it. I really liked that part because it helped me understand how it can be done and improve my game.
Now it was time for me to test my new learned skills. Seb let me approach the way he taught me as well as fulfill several tasks designed to push me out of my comfort zone. Every time when he found something I was very uncomfortable doing he kept pushing me to do it over and over again. This is quite an intense way of learning, but it helps incredibly. As a little reward for all the work, I ended up getting the number of two girls.
His coaching does not stop with the end of the session. He sent me lots of information afterwards which are useful to work on my sticking points, and he promptly answered all my questions I sent him. All in all, Seb is a great coach. He is very knowledgeable, interested in the success of his students and a fun guy to hang out with. If you want to someone to improve your technique and push you out of your comfort zone for a reasonable price, he is definitely a good choice.”
“A while ago I did a one on one with Sebastian in order to improve my ability to meet women during the day. I originally came across Sebastian at the LSS bootcamp when I had a coaching session with him and a number of other students. I found him very down to earth and I liked his genuine style for meeting women which I felt suited my personality.
While my ability to meet women in bars had been improving since the bootcamp I was struggling to do the same in daytime situations and often tried to make my conversation starters somewhat indirect which was getting me nowhere. Sebastian forced me to accept being direct as the way to go and I got two separate dates just from girls I met during the 4 hour session I had with him!
A big factor which led me to write this review is the help afterwards he gives. He has been in touch with me since, offering advice with questions I have had. I have found this kind of mentoring invaluable.
The other factor which led me to choose him was his prices which are pretty cheap.”
“I’m new to the approaching women and I had a lot of worries and fears about building rapport. After I’ve tried to deal with this stuff on my own, a friend of mine suggested I contact this “amazing dating coach” who will bring me to a really good level in a short time.
The first time time I met Seb I was in covent garden and thank God my first impression was, “oh for fuck sake is a normal guy like me”, nothing special, not brad pitt or fucking Jude law. We talked about my fears and my goals and he showed me how to approach; he opened this beautiful girl and I thought “MAN, this man is the man”. He is really relaxed, really confident and competent about what he is doing. Another thing that I really like about him is that he is so fucking humble and funny, time flies when I’m with him.
So in short, I decided to trust him and I had my reward when I got know a really amazing girl. I’m really enjoying my interactions now, and most important thing I’m happy about what I’m doing. He pointed me into the right direction and he has been honest saying, “you have to keep practicing, you will learn by doing it”.
“He has a very natural, playful, laidback style and just comes across as a genuine guy. We started the day with a bit of talk about mindsets and our experiences so far. He printed off some stuff for me that set out his approach, which is centred on building rapport and a connection with the girl. I think this is important as many guys can get numbers but if they only have a short interaction with the girl she has no reason to respond to texts or calls.
As for approaching, Seb defines the word persistence, even if the girl is walking off, as long as she is smiling he just keeps going and walks with her. Many guys, including myself, give up at the first sign of disinterest but there may be a time where a bit of persistence is all that is needed to get the girl. It shows that you really have an interest in her and are being genuine. There was probably the hottest girl I have every seen in London in topman and Seb approaches playfully. She is smiling and obviously likes his humour and although she walks off he keeps re-opening. It was inspiring to watch.
Having not really had much success recently, I got two numbers on the day, one right after the other.”
“I enjoyed his open, relaxed, unattached way of relating to me and to other people we met. We walked around and talked and whenever I saw someone I liked I went and talked to her. His feedback seemed very natural and whatever he would suggest felt very easy to do. I would say the main thing of the day was the ease of talking to women that Seb inspired in me. The whole day was a chance for me to push my limits and, although I sometimes dreaded it in the moment, it felt fucking good at the end of the day.
What it brought for me:
I had some good interactions and some that didn’t go that well but taught me a lot about what works for me and what doesn’t. I left several women feeling great and got the number of the woman I found the most attractive of the ones I talked to during the day.
The main thing for me was a switch in my mind about how I saw relating to women. It felt very easy and natural.
Seb was great. He was discreet but there when needed and made the whole day run very smoothly. He recommended some great things to do and read. What I most appreciated about him was his ability to give (time, advice, presence) and that’s something I aim for as well.”
“It was great. I’d never gone direct before and hadn’t approached women in the day before, but it appealed to me since it cuts out the crappy indirect questions and gets straight to the point. I agree with Seb when he says that going direct means you aren’t lying to the girl or yourself. It felt a lot more natural and genuine.
We went to a cafe for a chat where he talked about his approach, and then we headed off in central. Seb did a few demos and was really relaxed. It was really helpful for me to see energy levels required in the day, but mainly to see how to deliver what I wanted to say. He was good at bantering with the girls he stopped, and that was great since that’s one of my stumbling blocks.
I did a few approaches and got the number of a really fit girl in about 2 minutes.
I’d definitely recommend you check him out. He’s a really sound guy.”
“First off we had a coffee and chat about technique, personal histories and backgrounds. We chatted for about an hour, Seb spoke enthusiastically and passionately and I get the impression that he is a very chilled and genuine guy. I like the fact that he is not a classically good looking guy. If he is the “Real Deal” then his game must be strong.
Seb is well prepared and has brought material. It is also clear that he has studied most forms of this art. He suggests further readings and materials based on what I have told him of myself, which feels tailored to where I am at, which is great.
Seb explains his style of approach and then demonstrates on what I would describe as a 10. As he walks back over to me, complete with her number in his phone, I get the impression he doesn’t rate her as highly as I do…
Impressive. I guess he must be the real deal.
Now it’s my turn. I’ve seen it done. I have talked to countless girls at night (with alcohol). Seb selects a good candidate. In I go…
Pure mind bending fear as I open. Euphoria when she actually stops and acknowledges me. Euphoria when I realise we’re having a real conversation. After a while the conversation kind of drifts away and we say our goodbyes… But for a first time with a direct opener in broad daylight without a sniff of booze… I could not wish for more.
Seb is great, encouraging and provides constructive feedback.
We spend more time practising and I realise when Seb opens another 10 and gets a similarly positive response that he really is the real deal. Then it hits me… I have been dabbling at this game. That to open sober might be harder but is more rewarding. That by neglecting day game I have only really been developing one side to this art. It took seeing someone really proficient in action to drive that home. It was a mental reference point.”
“I decided to have a one-to-one session with Seb since I was intrigued by his ‘authentic method’ to attracting women and his website articles also intrigued me.
I met him on Oxford Street around midday and he welcomed me in a very warm and friendly manner. We then went into a coffee shop and he gave me a lot of advice around psychology, the right mindset to have, the love of women, as well as various topics such as the right way to approach, conversation skills, rapport and many more. He also answered some of my burning questions.
After I felt ready, we went out and Seb did a demonstration on very attractive 20 year old African student I believe, he instantly got her engaged and attracted which he got her number. He also went on to do a demonstration on a very, very beautiful European lady in a stationary position. I’d rate her around 9.5, he approached and engaged with ease, she seemed to like him a lot and they conversed numbers and he also got a kiss.
Now for my turn, there were a lot of nerves in the belly since this was the first time I’m looking to approach and attract beautifl women. I approached a very pretty Asian girl in earphones which she stopping for me. I didn’t really know what to say after I told her ‘I had to meet you’ so she just walked off.
I also remember this stunning Indian lady. So I walked beside her, tapped her on the shoulder and said I thought she looked very beautiful and she said ‘ok,’ I didn’t know what to say after that so she probably saw my lack of confidence and said ‘sorry’ and walked off. I approached at least 5 more and I could not get my body position quite right. Furthermore, I was not expressing myself well and having voice projection issues, which needs to be worked on.
Seb observed me and told me about what I should do in those situations and how to improve them after seeing my approaches.
Seb and I then went into a coffee shop to debrief and he made a list of my achievements for today as well as what I needed to work on and what suggestions he would advise me to follow up on. He then went on to answer my questions.
Overall, an interesting day with a fabulous coach. You will not be disappointed by what you see with Seb and he really cares sincerely about his students.”